DWELLING ON THE PAST

 

Self-sabotage 

Dwelling on the past means reopening wounds and allowing opportunities for self-sabotage.

You are sitting at home and your mind keeps going over the negatives😔😔 over and over, you keep reviewing what has happened 🤷‍♀️to your relationship.

If you're the type that doesn't move on and forget easily, you are more likely to feel heart broken 💔 for longer periods of time. 

This is because you dwell on the past memories and nostalgia too much so that you're unable to heal completely.

How did dwelling on the past affected your relationship?


Comments

  1. Anonymous8 May 2022 at 05:33

    It didn't work out , because I was still holding on what once was and I was also expecting my partner to be like my ex,,,I think before you be with someone else make peace with yourself

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  2. Relebohile Kanono8 May 2022 at 05:43

    I wanted my partner to be like my ex and I wanted my relationship to be like the previous one 😣 in other words I was still holding back ... Before getting in a relationship make sure you were able to heal and let go of everything, get into a new relationship with fresh mind not because of you are trying to forget your ex.

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  3. Anonymous8 May 2022 at 08:37

    Loss of trust in any relationship one is engaged

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  4. Grace Mapota8 May 2022 at 12:33

    Okay, but why is this so triggering to read?

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    1. Mpani Thoahlane 8 May 2022 at 13:13

      Because you remember a traumatic experience

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  5. Felete8 May 2022 at 13:30

    Well it did affect it in a way that my previous girl was a sex maniac, so i wanted the current one to have the same Quality. And that made us have a lot of disagreement and fights

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  6. Peculiar Kopung8 May 2022 at 23:29

    It actually left me with certain negative attitudes that made insecure 🙃, so in my previous relationship my partner ona rata ho nkopa chelete and the fact that we ended separating I felt used. When my partner in my next relationship asked for any financial aid, it actually changed ow I felt about her 😅😅😅

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  7. Anonymous9 May 2022 at 08:56

    I've been trying not to think about it, but I wish I'd meet my dad one more to make amends, it's hard as he's no more 😥,

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  8. Anonymous9 May 2022 at 10:39

    I didn't wanna let anyone close to me, I got overprotective of my feelings, I built walls to hide from the public. I couldn't move on until 2 years later, that's only when I healed

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  9. Sbah10 May 2022 at 02:05

    We have to focus on future than past

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  10. Felete10 May 2022 at 03:24

    It affected my relationship because i wanted my partner to be like the partner i had

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  11. Anonymous15 May 2022 at 13:03

    The is nothing that affects me now,I mean nothing at all,,I haven't get someone to love me after my break up with my babe daddy ,,but still hoping to get someone to love me

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  12. Anonymous23 May 2022 at 03:22

    Yah neh

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  13. Anonymous31 May 2022 at 02:50

    It has affected me badly that I was slowly getting depressed

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  14. Joythi Joyce Mots'oane31 May 2022 at 08:45

    I was depressed waiting for someone to change for my sake

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  15. Anonymous31 May 2022 at 13:00

    Dwelling on the past is rubbish

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  16. Anonymous31 May 2022 at 13:01

    Why can't you just move on ?

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  17. Cina31 May 2022 at 13:04

    Agh

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