Holding back


 If you spend all your time trying to please your partner, you're definitely holding back.

When people please, they get to avoid their own feelings, desires, wants and dreams by focusing on their partner's.


As we've heard the saying "good people die young", it might only be a bit of exaggeration to say that they all die out of a heartbreak 💔 

Good people usually love with all that they've got and aren't afraid of wearing their hearts on their sleeves, which is why they're often pone to being broken hearted 💔. 

What's your take on holding back in a relationship?

Comments

  1. Khojane Malefu6 May 2022 at 23:14

    Holding back breaks one even more😭 I think we should stop it and move on because we tend to lose us as we focus on pleasing

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  2. Relebohile Kanono6 May 2022 at 23:28

    Some people forget their goals and focus on keeping their partner happy and it happens a lot to woman, they sacrifice their goals for a relationship

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  3. Peculiar Kopung6 May 2022 at 23:39

    I believe you won't have to hold back if the love is mutual, because each of you would want to see yourselves happy.

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  4. Anonymous6 May 2022 at 23:45

    It's not right to compromise your happiness for someone who's not willing to do the same in a relationship

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  5. Thando7 May 2022 at 00:02

    Holding back kills a person's soul! All that hurt and tears! There's a point where they grow as hard as a stone and there's no turning point, they're scarred for life💔

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  6. Anonymous7 May 2022 at 00:17

    Holding back makes one lose focus in life whereby a person will be living a life that's not theirs only to please their spouse.

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  7. Anonymous7 May 2022 at 00:37

    A relationship should please both parties . Holding back means there is no honesty in the relationship you might resent your partner resulting in sn unhealthy relationship.

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  8. Anonymous7 May 2022 at 00:40

    Holding back can make one lose her/his self trying make his/her partner happy
    Who is not willing to do the same

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  9. Anonymous7 May 2022 at 00:59

    Holding back makes it difficult to move on as you keep on believing that things will change while they don't and you spend more time overthinking instead of finding yourself and being there for yourself

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  10. Anonymous7 May 2022 at 01:11

    Holding back will make you lose yourself trying to please someone who is not even doing the same for you.

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  11. lochimareka7 May 2022 at 02:17

    People should learn to let go. Holding back is just a waste of time especially is a one-sided thing.

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  12. Moleboheng Lehasa7 May 2022 at 02:33

    Life is too short to be holding on people who don't want to be hold onto.Don't go against yourself,love yourself enough to let go toxic relationships.

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  13. Tebello blog7 May 2022 at 04:30

    As much as it's not very easy we must move forward no matter what, holding back destroys good things

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  14. Phuthehang7 May 2022 at 06:44

    This life is too short to be holding back onto people who don't even deserve it,,,do all that makes you happy that's it

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  15. Bkeey7 May 2022 at 08:22

    Love is very tough and requires patience and understanding so that both parties are at peace with the relationship

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  16. Anonymous7 May 2022 at 08:50

    Holding back never end well because you lose yourself and also you beg them to stay in your life

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  17. Anonymous8 May 2022 at 03:35

    Self-love is very important♥📌before trying to impress or please other people.... Learn to love yourself first❤and you shall be saved from all the challenges and drama you gonna meet in a relationship

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  18. Pretty 'Matli8 May 2022 at 03:44

    Holding on to memories really break's one's soul because there is no moving forward

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  19. Anonymous8 May 2022 at 04:58

    Sometimes all we need is to just let go

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  20. Hlonie9 May 2022 at 11:11

    Holding back in a relationship can make one miss a lotta things in life such as exploring other options out there

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  21. Un-wrap with Ntha Mahloane10 May 2022 at 03:26

    I don't usually hold back in a relationship and nna once I get into a relationship I go all in,go big or go home😅😅😅

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  22. Anonymous23 May 2022 at 03:21

    Yah neh

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  23. PERCEPTION31 May 2022 at 02:11

    No more turning back

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  24. Anonymous31 May 2022 at 02:49

    Holding back hurts even more than a break up 😭😭💔

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  25. Joythi Joyce Mots'oane31 May 2022 at 08:46

    Holding back hurts

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  26. Aggy31 May 2022 at 13:02

    Holding back e senya nako

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  27. Katli31 May 2022 at 13:05

    Let go
    Holding back won't take you anywhere
    We move

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  28. Anonymous31 May 2022 at 13:06

    Ke li shit malome

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  29. Lebo31 May 2022 at 13:13

    This isn't good skat

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  30. Thato31 May 2022 at 13:13

    Nna I don't hold back in a relationship

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  31. Mpani Thoahlane 31 May 2022 at 13:14

    Neh

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